RDS: Clean up error handling in rds_cmsg_rdma_args

We don't need to set ret = 0 at the end -- it's initialized to 0.

Also, don't increment s_send_rdma stat if we're exiting with an
error.

Signed-off-by: Andy Grover <andy.grover@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>