netlink: annotate data races around dst_portid and dst_group

[ Upstream commit 004db64d185a5f23dfb891d7701e23713b2420ee ]

netlink_getname(), netlink_sendmsg() and netlink_getsockbyportid()
can read nlk->dst_portid and nlk->dst_group while another
thread is changing them.

Fixes: 1da177e4 ("Linux-2.6.12-rc2")
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Sasha Levin <sashal@kernel.org>