KVM: MMU: using __xchg_spte more smarter

Sometimes, atomically set spte is not needed, this patch call __xchg_spte()
more smartly

Note: if the old mapping's access bit is already set, we no need atomic operation
since the access bit is not lost

Signed-off-by: Xiao Guangrong <xiaoguangrong@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Avi Kivity <avi@redhat.com>