[SCSI] fix oops on usb storage device disconnect

We fix the oops by enforcing the host state model.  There have also
been two extra states added: SHOST_CANCEL_RECOVERY and
SHOST_DEL_RECOVERY so we can take the model through host removal while
the recovery thread is active.

Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@SteelEye.com>