xfs: merge xfs_dinode.h into xfs_format.h

More consolidatation for the on-disk format defintions.  Note that the
XFS_IS_REALTIME_INODE moves to xfs_linux.h instead as it is not related
to the on disk format, but depends on a CONFIG_ option.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <david@fromorbit.com>