IB/ipoib: Fix RCU pointer dereference of wrong object

Commit b63b70d8 ("IPoIB: Use a private hash table for path lookup
in xmit path") introduced a bug where in ipoib_neigh_free() (which is
called from a few errors flows in the driver), rcu_dereference() is
invoked with the wrong pointer object, which results in a crash.

Signed-off-by: Shlomo Pongratz <shlomop@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Or Gerlitz <ogerlitz@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>