of: Improve prom_update_property() function

prom_update_property() currently fails if the property doesn't
actually exist yet which isn't what we want. Change to add-or-update
instead of update-only, then we can remove a lot duplicated lines.

Suggested-by: Grant Likely <grant.likely@secretlab.ca>
Signed-off-by: Dong Aisheng <dong.aisheng@linaro.org>
Acked-by: Rob Herring <rob.herring@calxeda.com>
Signed-off-by: Benjamin Herrenschmidt <benh@kernel.crashing.org>