shmem: support RENAME_WHITEOUT

Allocate a dentry, initialize it with a whiteout and hash it in the place
of the old dentry.  Later the old dentry will be moved away and the
whiteout will remain.

i_mutex protects agains concurrent readdir.

Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@suse.cz>
Cc: Hugh Dickins <hughd@google.com>