blk-mq: initialize request on allocation

If we want to share tag and request allocation between queues we cannot
initialize the request at init/free time, but need to initialize it
at allocation time as it might get used for different queues over its
lifetime.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>