tipc: Minor optimization to rejection of connection-based messages

Modifies message rejection logic so that TIPC doesn't attempt to
send a FIN message to the rejecting port if it is known in advance
that there is no such message because the rejecting port doesn't exist.

Signed-off-by: Allan Stephens <allan.stephens@windriver.com>
Signed-off-by: Paul Gortmaker <paul.gortmaker@windriver.com>