vfs: create a generic checking function for FS_IOC_FSSETXATTR

Create a generic checking function for the incoming FS_IOC_FSSETXATTR
fsxattr values so that we can standardize some of the implementation
behaviors.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>