fuse: clean up return in fuse_dentry_revalidate()

On errors unrelated to the filesystem's state (ENOMEM, ENOTCONN) return the
error itself from ->d_revalidate() insted of returning zero (invalid).

Also make a common label for invalidating the dentry.  This will be used by
the next patch.

Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>