xfs: make XBF_MAPPED the default behaviour

Rather than specifying XBF_MAPPED for almost all buffers, introduce
XBF_UNMAPPED for the couple of users that use unmapped buffers.

Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Tinguely <tinguely@sgi.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Ben Myers <bpm@sgi.com>