IB/qib: Ensure that LOS and DFE are being turned off

Due to timing, it is possible for the LOS and DFE to remain on. This
is due to the link progressing to LinkUP prior to the driver getting
the first Status Changed interrupt.  By expanding the conditions under
which LOS is turned off and DFE timeout is being set, timing is no
longer an issue.

Signed-off-by: Mitko Haralanov <mitko@qlogic.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@qlogic.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>