btrfs: Don't BUG_ON errors from update_ref_for_cow()

__btrfs_cow_block(), the only caller of update_ref_for_cow() will BUG_ON()
any error return.  Instead, we can go read-only fs as update_ref_for_cow()
manipulates disk data in a way which doesn't look like it's easily rolled
back.

Signed-off-by: Mark Fasheh <mfasheh@suse.de>