Fix the ActivityLifecycleTests#testLocalRecreate flakiness

IACC#activityTopResumedStateLost was reported to ATMS later than
IACC#activityPaused sometimes because one is one-way binder call
while the other one is two-way binder.

Also make IACC#activityTopResumedStateLost a two-way binder

Bug: 185810414
Test: atest ActivityLifecycleTests
Change-Id: Ib87de693f5ebcfd836208924aa8fc2a035ca7c82