Framework: Improve binder Error logging

In protracted cases, diagnostic code cannot retrieve any Java-side
data. Add two specific cases and instanceof checks (which require
no allocation etc), and a special message, so that aborts have
meaningful data (in case logcat is missing).

Sample:

 Abort message: 'JNI FatalError called: java.lang.Error thrown during binder transaction: (Unknown exception message) (Error was OutOfMemoryError) (toString() error was OutOfMemoryError)'

Bug: 136482507
Test: m
Test: manual
Change-Id: I5c0c1d74ba8a6aeafee95b578a422a80b9899196