Default to true for updateDestinationFrame in BBQ

In most cases, we do want the destination frame to be updated by BBQ.
The exception is SV due to multiple threads involved in property
changes. Change the default updateDestinationFrame to true and let SV
set it to false for their scenario.

Test: Apps with NATIVE_WINDOW_SCALING_MODE_SCALE_TO_WINDOW work
Fixes: 228008717
Change-Id: I90ae6f0797633aa963c540a94f1cbaea9e498f23