Binder: Change reaction to Error

Instead of aborting immediately with a native error, try to call
Thread.dispatchUncaughtException to trigger a Java-side abort.
Only fall back to the old strategy if this fails.

(cherry picked from commit 1cd76f5c)

Bug: 64689630
Test: m
Test: manual test
Merged-In: If07a04d3769f3b9181c4736220333df9a2871a16
Change-Id: If07a04d3769f3b9181c4736220333df9a2871a16