API Review cleanups.

- New @SystemApis on Conference and PhoneAccount were missing the required
permissions annotations.
- Rename PROPERTY_ASSISTED_DIALING_USED to PROPERTY_ASSISTED_DIALING
- Standardize get/setConnectionStartElapsedRealtimeMillis method naming
across Connection and Conference classes.
- Clarify Conference#sendConferenceEvent API documentation to match the
docs present for similar method in Connection; include some examples of
valid event/extras combinations.
- Update TelecomManager#getDefaultdialerPackage to use UserHandle instead
of userId.
- Move Conference#getConnectionStartElapsedRealtimeMillis to public API
since the setter is already part of the public API.

Test: Run Telecom and Telephony CTS tests.
Test: Run Telephony unit tests.
Test: Perform manual single-party-conference regression test to confirm
that conference behavior does not regress.

Bug: 147301297
Bug: 148286830
Bug: 148284863
Bug: 148284843
Bug: 148287068
Bug: 148285484
Bug: 148285560
Change-Id: I1f446d81859fa109d74af3661a42a0bd224de5aa