Do not hold indicators for apps that become paused

If an app op becomes "paused" (microphone muted or disabled by toggle),
remove the indicator immediately as opposed to holding for 5s.

Also, pass the value that we are using for mic muted to
PermissionManager, so they are in sync.

Test: atest SystemUITests
Test: manual
Fixes: 184891081
Change-Id: I4d46fc6e1cefa45c0d718cc01f40c8f060dafee7