Prevent restoring task when updating task

Cherry-pick from: Ie501add4b72a63be0b8514136f10a09fbdd0c6c3

Symptom: App activity shown between launcher & wallpaper.

RootCause:
Some AM public Apis (getTaskInfo(), setExcluteFromRecent()) will calling
AM.anyTaskForIdLocked with MATCH_TASK_IN_STACKS_OR_RECENT_TASKS_AND_RESTORE
parameter to get task record & add task into stack bottom,
that will affect wm side also create task & bring task stack to bottom
due to task.createWindowContainer() in restoreRecentTaskLocked().

Solution:
using MATCH_TASK_IN_STACKS_OR_RECENT_TASKS to get task record without
restore record into stack.

Bug: 67634904
Test: As below issue described sample app flows. b/68038609

Change-Id: I8241c0956a3323a70e754c794dd562540ff4eaf4
Signed-off-by: Winson Chung <winsonc@google.com>