improve mism support for phonestatelistner

1. throw exception if reuse the same listner for different sub
2. subId should come from TM instance not phonestateListener.
3. refactor settings to apply phonestatelistner with TM instances

Bug: 117555407
Test: Manual
Change-Id: I1af07798d7982575cccc27462af179182c033409
(cherry picked from commit 0ebc9b67)
Merged-in: I1af07798d7982575cccc27462af179182c033409