Add clang-tidy.sh to filter out troublesome flags.

* Some flags are accepted by clang but not clang-tidy.
  They could cause the diagnostic-unused-command-line-argument warning.
  Flag -flto messed up the -I flags.
* Add clang-diagnostic-unused-command-line-argument to
  default clang-tidy checks.
* Move CLANG_TIDY_UNKNOWN_CFLAGS to build/make/core/clang/tidy.mk.

Bug: 111850071
Bug: 111885396
Test: build with WITH_TIDY=1
Change-Id: Iabeeb27715acf83ef6aafe3e77206b9a01a0d889