Skip apex dep check when sanitizer diag is enabled

To avoid adding ubsan to the apex allowed_dep list, this commit adds a
check on depedency tags to see if apex check should be skipped.
The check is only used on sharedLib dependencies when diag mode are enabled
for sanitizers.

Bug: 158010610

Test: make build for aosp-sargo and aosp_cf_x86_phone-userdebug

Change-Id: I3d7dbb70d8c80ffae1854819cf8cf9e6b0b15c00