xen-netback: fix unlimited guest Rx internal queue and carrier flapping

Netback needs to discard old to-guest skb's (guest Rx queue drain) and
it needs detect guest Rx stalls (to disable the carrier so packets are
discarded earlier), but the current implementation is very broken.

1. The check in hard_start_xmit of the slot availability did not
   consider the number of packets that were already in the guest Rx
   queue.  This could allow the queue to grow without bound.

   The guest stops consuming packets and the ring was allowed to fill
   leaving S slot free.  Netback queues a packet requiring more than S
   slots (ensuring that the ring stays with S slots free).  Netback
   queue indefinately packets provided that then require S or fewer
   slots.

2. The Rx stall detection is not triggered in this case since the
   (host) Tx queue is not stopped.

3. If the Tx queue is stopped and a guest Rx interrupt occurs, netback
   will consider this an Rx purge event which may result in it taking
   the carrier down unnecessarily.  It also considers a queue with
   only 1 slot free as unstalled (even though the next packet might
   not fit in this).

The internal guest Rx queue is limited by a byte length (to 512 Kib,
enough for half the ring).  The (host) Tx queue is stopped and started
based on this limit.  This sets an upper bound on the amount of memory
used by packets on the internal queue.

This allows the estimatation of the number of slots for an skb to be
removed (it wasn't a very good estimate anyway).  Instead, the guest
Rx thread just waits for enough free slots for a maximum sized packet.

skbs queued on the internal queue have an 'expires' time (set to the
current time plus the drain timeout).  The guest Rx thread will detect
when the skb at the head of the queue has expired and discard expired
skbs.  This sets a clear upper bound on the length of time an skb can
be queued for.  For a guest being destroyed the maximum time needed to
wait for all the packets it sent to be dropped is still the drain
timeout (10 s) since it will not be sending new packets.

Rx stall detection is reintroduced in a later commit.

Signed-off-by: David Vrabel <david.vrabel@citrix.com>
Reviewed-by: Wei Liu <wei.liu2@citrix.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>