block: cleanup blkdev_ioctl

Split out helpers for all non-trivial ioctls to make this function simpler,
and also start passing around a pointer version of the argument, as that's
what most ioctl handlers actually need.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>