[PATCH] uml: physical memory map file fixes

UML really wants shared memory semantics form its physical memory map file,
and the place for that is /dev/shm.  So move the default, and fix the error
messages to recognize that this value can be overridden.

Signed-off-by: Rob Landley <rob@landley.net>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Dike <jdike@addtoit.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@osdl.org>
Signed-off-by: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@osdl.org>