lightnvm: replace req queue with nvmdev for lld

In the case where a request queue is passed to the low lever lightnvm
device drive integration, the device driver might pass its admin
commands through another queue. Instead pass nvm_dev, and let the
low level drive the appropriate queue.

Reported-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Matias Bjørling <m@bjorling.me>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>