fanotify: resize pid and reorder structure

resize pid and reorder the fanotify_event_metadata so it is naturally
aligned and we can work towards dropping the packed attributed

Signed-off-by: Tvrtko Ursulin <tvrtko.ursulin@sophos.com>
Cc: Andreas Dilger <adilger@dilger.ca>
Signed-off-by: Eric Paris <eparis@redhat.com>