Btrfs: fix spinlock assertions on UP systems

btrfs_tree_locked was being used to make sure a given extent_buffer was
properly locked in a few places.  But, it wasn't correct for UP compiled
kernels.

This switches it to using assert_spin_locked instead, and renames it to
btrfs_assert_tree_locked to better reflect how it was really being used.

Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <chris.mason@oracle.com>