firewire: fw-sbp2: Use sbp2 device-provided mgt orb timeout for logins

To be more compliant with section 7.4.8 of the SBP-2 specification,
use the mgt_ORB_timeout specified in the SBP-2 device's config rom
for login ORB attempts (though with some sanity checks). A happy
side-effect is that certain device and controller combinations that
sometimes take more than 20 seconds to get synced up (like my laptop
with just about any SBP-2 device) now function more reliably.

Signed-off-by: Jarod Wilson <jwilson@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Richter <stefanr@s5r6.in-berlin.de> (silenced sparse)