this is in preperation to be able to query the database for all images

some nokia devices with Android 9 fail to start the service from the activity sometimes. since this is probably a race it should be save to ignore this

fixes #3331

Notifications from strangers are disabled by default in order to cope
with spam. On the other hand, this complicates contacting other users
for the first time, which leads to a bad user experience.

Merge branch 'implement_room_destruction' of https://github.com/area-42/Conversations into bookmarks