change message styling rules

Message styling purposly doesn’t require a whitespace after a closing
tag to make something like ~un~believable work. However it also breaks
_Programmierer_innen_ and other example where the tag is repeated as a
non tag in the word.
Therefor we change the rules that if a closing tag is followed by a higher
order closing tag (a closing tag followed by an end block or white space)
we ignore the first closing tag. But only if we don’t read another tag open.