libfc: Reduce exchange lock contention in fc_exch_recv_abts()

Reduce the time during which the exchange lock is held by allocating
a frame before obtaining the exchange lock.

Signed-off-by: Bart Van Assche <bvanassche@acm.org>
Cc: Neil Horman <nhorman@tuxdriver.com>
Signed-off-by: Robert Love <robert.w.love@intel.com>