Btrfs: make SNAP_DESTROY async

There is no reason to force an immediate commit when deleting a snapshot.
Users have some expectation that space from a deleted snapshot be freed
immediately, but even if we do commit the reclaim is a background process.

If users _do_ want the deletion to be durable, they can call 'sync'.

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@newdream.net>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <chris.mason@oracle.com>