Btrfs: don't BUG() during drop snapshot

Really there's lots of things that can go wrong here, kill all the
BUG_ON()'s and replace the logic ones with ASSERT()'s and return EIO
instead.

Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <jbacik@fb.com>
[ switched to btrfs_err, errors go to common label ]
Reviewed-by: Liu Bo <bo.li.liu@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>