libceph: rename socket callbacks

Change the names of the three socket callback functions to make it
more obvious they're specifically associated with a connection's
socket (not the ceph connection that uses it).

Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Yehuda Sadeh <yehuda@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>