NFS: Cleanup - rename NFS_LAYOUT_RETURN_BEFORE_CLOSE

NFS_LAYOUT_RETURN_BEFORE_CLOSE is being used to signal that a
layoutreturn is needed, either due to a layout recall or to a
layout error. Rename it to NFS_LAYOUT_RETURN_REQUESTED in order
to clarify its purpose.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>