btrfs: backref: Don't merge refs which are not for same block.

Old __merge_refs() in backref.c will even merge refs whose root_id are
different, which makes qgroup gives wrong result.

Fix it by checking ref_for_same_block() before any mode specific works.

Signed-off-by: Qu Wenruo <quwenruo@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <clm@fb.com>