ceph: preserve seq # on requeued messages after transient transport errors

If the tcp connection drops and we reconnect to reestablish a stateful
session (with the mds), we need to resend previously sent (and possibly
received) messages with the _same_ seq # so that they can be dropped on
the other end if needed.  Only assign a new seq once after the message is
queued.

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@newdream.net>