IB/ipoib: Avoid flushing the workqueue from worker context

The error flow of ipoib_ib_dev_open() invokes ipoib_ib_dev_stop() with
workqueue flushing enabled, which deadlocks if the open procedure
itself was called by a worker thread.

Fix this by adding a flush enabled flag to ipoib_ib_dev_open() and set
it accordingly from the locations where such a call is made.

The call trace was the following:

 [<ffffffff81095bc4>] ? flush_workqueue+0x54/0x80
 [<ffffffffa056c657>] ? ipoib_ib_dev_stop+0x447/0x650 [ib_ipoib]
 [<ffffffffa056cc34>] ? ipoib_ib_dev_open+0x284/0x430 [ib_ipoib]
 [<ffffffffa05674a8>] ? ipoib_open+0x78/0x1d0 [ib_ipoib]
 [<ffffffffa05697b8>] ? ipoib_pkey_open+0x38/0x40 [ib_ipoib]
 [<ffffffffa056cf3c>] ? __ipoib_ib_dev_flush+0x15c/0x2c0 [ib_ipoib]
 [<ffffffffa056ce56>] ? __ipoib_ib_dev_flush+0x76/0x2c0 [ib_ipoib]
 [<ffffffffa056d0a0>] ? ipoib_ib_dev_flush_heavy+0x0/0x20 [ib_ipoib]
 [<ffffffffa056d0ba>] ? ipoib_ib_dev_flush_heavy+0x1a/0x20 [ib_ipoib]
 [<ffffffff81094d20>] ? worker_thread+0x170/0x2a0
 [<ffffffff8109b2a0>] ? autoremove_wake_function+0x0/0x40

Signed-off-by: Erez Shitrit <erezsh@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Or Gerlitz <ogerlitz@mellanox.com>
Acked-by: Alex Estrin <alex.estrin@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>