xen/blkback: Don't let in-flight requests defer pending ones.

Running RING_FINAL_CHECK_FOR_REQUESTS from make_response is a bad
idea. It means that in-flight I/O is essentially blocking continued
batches. This essentially kills throughput on frontends which unplug
(or even just notify) early and rightfully assume addtional requests
will be picked up on time, not synchronously.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Stodden <daniel.stodden@citrix.com>
[v1: Rebased and fixed compile problems]
Signed-off-by: Konrad Rzeszutek Wilk <konrad.wilk@oracle.com>