bpf: don't rely on the verifier lock for metadata_dst allocation

bpf_skb_set_tunnel_*() functions require allocation of per-cpu
metadata_dst.  The allocation happens upon verification of the
first program using those helpers.  In preparation for removing
the verifier lock, use cmpxchg() to make sure we only allocate
the metadata_dsts once.

Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <simon.horman@netronome.com>
Acked-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>