vfio: add local lock for virqfd instead of depending on VFIO PCI

The Virqfd code needs to keep accesses to any struct *virqfd safe, but
this comes into play only when creating or destroying eventfds, so sharing
the same spinlock with the VFIO bus driver is not necessary.

Signed-off-by: Antonios Motakis <a.motakis@virtualopensystems.com>
Signed-off-by: Baptiste Reynal <b.reynal@virtualopensystems.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Auger <eric.auger@linaro.org>
Tested-by: Eric Auger <eric.auger@linaro.org>
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>