block: Refuse request/bio merges with gaps in the integrity payload

If a driver sets the block queue virtual boundary mask, it means that
it cannot handle gaps so we must not allow those in the integrity
payload as well.

Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagig@mellanox.com>

Fixed up by me to have duplicate integrity merge functions, depending
on whether block integrity is enabled or not. Fixes a compilations
issue with CONFIG_BLK_DEV_INTEGRITY unset.

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>