firewire: improve refcounting of fw_card

Take a reference to the card whenever fw_card_bm_work() is scheduled on
that card and release it when the work is done.  This allows us to
remove the cancel_delayed_work_sync() in fw_core_remove_card().

Signed-off-by: Jay Fenlason <fenlason@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Richter <stefanr@s5r6.in-berlin.de> (patch update)